If you see a lady at church, without her husband, and WITH her seven children struggling to keep the children quiet and attentive throughout the entire service, even though one child has already peed on her foot in the restroom and one child became hysterical after getting her arm stuck in the chair crack during communion, (the same child who spilled orange juice all down her face, neck and dress that morning), rushing up to her after church to say,
"I'm going to be PRAYING for you! Oh dear! You certainly have your HANDS FULL!"
will NOT be taken as encouragement.